Date nights your married couples will actually go on.
Ready-made date night kits for your married couples, delivered straight to their phones.
Equip every couple in your church with engaging games, intentional fun, and meaningful conversation starters, custom-branded with your church's logo. It serves as both a practical gift for your church family and an effortless outreach tool to help neighboring couples grow their marriage and find a church home.
- No app to download
- No accounts for couples
- No prep for your staff
Most married couples want more connection. Very few have a plan for it.
Life gets full. Kids, work, and schedules crowd out time together, and date night becomes dinner and a movie where no one really talks. Planning something meaningful feels like one more job.
Your church wants to help, but staff time is thin. Pocket Date Night gives you something ready to hand every married couple in your church, with the planning, the conversation, and the fun already done.
Regular date nights protect marriages
of husbands with regular date nights say they're very happy in their marriage, compared to 70% of those without. For wives, it's 83% compared to 68%.
Couples with frequent date nights are 14 percentage points more likely to say divorce is "not at all likely" in their future.
Yet only about half of married couples go on regular date nights, at least twice a month.
of U.S. churches report spending nothing each year on marriage and relationship ministry. Pocket Date Night gives your church an easy, affordable way to help every couple make regular date nights a reality.
Sources: W. Bradford Wilcox and Jeffrey Dew, The Date Night Opportunity (2023), National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia and the Wheatley Institute at BYU. Communio, Nationwide Study on Faith and Relationships.
Everything planned, start to finish
- Set the toneThe F.U.N. rules: fun and flirting, unplug and unite, no negativity.
- PlayA game for the drive or the kitchen that gets them laughing right away.
- TalkGuided questions that go deeper than "How was your day?"
- ConnectA moment built around Scripture, gratitude, or dreaming together.
- ShareA personalized date card and an easy way to invite another married couple.
Date Night Package 2027
Twelve themed date nights, one for every month of the year. Every one works as a night out or a cozy night at home.
Travel back to where it started, stay in the present, and dream forward, ending with a sealed letter to open on a future anniversary.
Try it freeA night to fall in love all over again: a first-look moment, candy hearts with sweet questions and dares, a love note to read aloud, and promises for the year ahead.
Draw up the blueprint for your future over dinner: build your dream house room by room, play Dream or Nightmare, and lay the first brick together.
Truth, Dare & Chocolate, a joke duel with glowing turns, and a whole evening of laughing together.
A spy date night: secret codenames, covert missions to pull off at dinner, a hidden love message to decode, and a round of two truths and a lie.
Travel the globe together: boarding passes, a spinning globe with passport stamps, flavors from around the world, and your travel bucket list.
A totally rad night: a retro photo booth, 80s trivia, songs from your love story, and a slow dance to a power ballad.
Your own TV game show: "How well do you know me?", a spin wheel, the big board, a lightning round, and prizes for the champion.
A game-day date: a coin toss, a team name and matching jerseys, paper football at the table, and a halftime huddle about your marriage.
A cozy autumn date: a cider toast, a pumpkin patch scavenger hunt or pumpkin portraits at home, and a gratitude basket filled with reasons you're thankful for each other.
Bake cookies together at home, or share a dinner out with cookies to go. Remember favorite moments and celebrate how you fit together.
A cozy Christmas date: a mistletoe kiss, Christmas lights bingo or a cookie decorating showdown, favorite Christmas memories, and a $10 gift exchange.
A 13th date night for annual plans, made for couples to celebrate their wedding anniversary whenever it falls: a toast to the years, your marriage by the numbers, wedding memories, and renewing your vows.
Each year brings a brand-new package of 12 date nights. Your church keeps every date night you've unlocked, year after year, for as long as your subscription stays active, so your library keeps growing.
A date night that reaches beyond your walls
Not every married couple will walk into a church. But almost every one will say yes to a great date night from a friend.
Every kit makes it easy for your couples to text the date night to friends, post it, or let another married couple scan a code at the restaurant. When they do, your church's name comes with it. Neighbors, coworkers, and friends who have never been to your church meet you through one of the best nights of their week.
Grace Community Church values your marriage
Tonight's date night was a gift from Grace Community Church. We'd love to meet you!
Join us this Sunday and learn more about our church.
Plan your visit →
Every date night ends with this invitation from your church, with your logo, your message, and a link to your website. (Sample church shown.)
- 1Your church shares itwith the married couples in your congregation.
- 2Your couples pass it onto friends, neighbors, and coworkers, by text, social media, or QR code.
- 3Unchurched married couples meet your churchwith your logo on a night that strengthened their marriage, and an invitation to visit.
Up and running in minutes
Choose a plan
Pick annual or monthly. Your license code arrives by email.
Add your logo
Enter your code, upload your logo, and add your church's website. Every date night becomes your church's.
Share your links
Put them in your bulletin, texts, small groups, or a QR code on the screen on Sunday.
- Your logo on every date night
- An invitation to your church in every kit, linked to your website
- Works on any phone, with nothing to download
- No accounts or passwords for couples
- Couples can share it with friends outside your church
- A new package of 12 date nights every year
- Your own church login to find your links and see how many date nights your couples start
- Built by marriage pastors who help churches care for marriages
Ideas for rolling it out
Priced for your church's size
Choose your average weekend attendance
For churches with 101 to 500 people on an average weekend.
- All 12 date nights in the 2027 package, right away
- Bonus: a 13th date night for anniversaries
- Your logo on every kit
- An invitation to your church in every kit
- Unlimited married couples in your church
By purchasing, you agree to our Church License Agreement. Plans renew automatically, and you can cancel anytime.
Choose the size that fits your church. We trust you. Every size gets the same date nights and features.
Multiple campuses, or is cost a barrier? Email us at [email protected]. We never want price to keep a church from caring for its marriages.
Try one with your spouse this week
Before you decide, experience a date night for yourself. The Time Machine kit is free for anyone. Just open it on your phone and go.
Let us build a custom date night for your church or event
Hosting a marriage conference, launching a sermon series, or planning a special night for your ministry? We'll create a one-of-a-kind date night built around your theme, so couples can carry what they're learning into a night together.
- Built around your event or series: its theme, its message, and its big ideas
- Your Scripture and talking points, woven into the conversation
- Your church's name and logo from start to finish
- Night out or night in, with everything couples love about our date nights
Tell us about your church and what you have in mind. Share a few details, and someone from our team will reach out to talk it through.
Thank you! We've received your request.
Someone from our team will contact you soon to talk through the details. We've also sent a confirmation to your email.
Good to know
Who are these date nights for?
Married couples. Every date night is written for husbands and wives, with moments of romance and affection meant for marriage. They aren't designed for dating or engaged couples, so we recommend sharing them with the married couples in your church and community.
Do couples need to create an account or download an app?
No. Couples open your church's link on their phone and start. There's nothing to install and no password to remember.
How do couples get the date nights?
After you add your logo, you get a link for each date night. Share them however you already reach your people: your bulletin, email, texts, small groups, or a QR code on the screen.
Can couples share our link with friends?
Yes, and we hope they do. Every kit makes it easy to text the date night to friends, post about it, or share it by QR code, and your church's logo goes with it.
Can this help us reach people who don't attend church?
Yes. That's one of the best parts. Your couples can share any date night with friends and neighbors, and your church's logo goes with it. It's an easy, low-pressure way to serve marriages in your community and introduce married couples to your church.
How do couples learn about our church?
Every date night includes a short invitation from your church with a link to your website, so couples can learn more and plan a visit. It's especially helpful for friends your couples share the date night with.
How many couples can use it?
As many as you have, plus the friends they share it with. One license covers your whole church.
What's the difference between annual and monthly?
Annual plans unlock all 12 date nights in the current package right away, plus a 13th bonus date night for couples to use on their anniversary. Monthly plans start with the current month's date night the day you sign up, then unlock each month's own date night on the 1st, so every themed date night (like Valentine's, Fall Harvest, and Christmas Lights) arrives in its season. After 12 months, you'll have all 12.
What happens when the next year's package comes out?
Each year we release a new package of 12 date nights. Your church keeps every date night it already has, year after year, as long as your subscription stays active. Annual churches get the new package right away, and monthly churches keep unlocking each month's date night as it comes around.
How do we choose our church size?
Choose the size closest to your average weekend attendance, counting adults and kids across all your services. Every size gets the same date nights and features. Larger churches pay a bit more because more couples use it. We trust you to pick the size that fits.
What happens if we stop our plan?
Your church's links stop opening the date nights. You can restart anytime, and your logo and links will work again.
When do we get our license code?
We email your license code after your purchase, along with simple steps to add your logo.
Give every married couple in your church, and the married couples they know, a better date night.
Choose a plan today, or try the free Time Machine date night with your spouse first.
