Date night, already planned. Just pull it out of your pocket.
Themed date nights for husbands and wives, ready on your phone in seconds.
Games that get you laughing, questions that go deeper than "How was your day?", and a key Scripture to anchor the night. Every date works as a night out or a night at home.
- No app to download
- Sign in with your email
- Built by marriage pastors
Most married couples want more connection. Very few have a plan for it.
Life gets full. Kids, work, and schedules crowd out time together, and date night turns into dinner and a movie where no one really talks. Planning something meaningful feels like one more job.
Pocket Date Night does the planning for you. Open it, follow along, and spend the night actually enjoying each other.
Regular date nights protect marriages
of husbands with regular date nights say they're very happy in their marriage, compared to 70% of those without. For wives, it's 83% compared to 68%.
Couples with frequent date nights are 14 percentage points more likely to say divorce is "not at all likely" in their future.
Yet only about half of married couples go on regular date nights, at least twice a month.
Source: W. Bradford Wilcox and Jeffrey Dew, The Date Night Opportunity (2023), National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia and the Wheatley Institute at BYU.
Everything planned, start to finish
- Set the toneThe F.U.N. rules: fun and flirting, unplug and unite, no negativity.
- PlayA game for the drive or the kitchen that gets you laughing right away.
- TalkGuided questions that go deeper than small talk.
- ConnectA moment built around Scripture, gratitude, or dreaming together.
- RememberA personalized date card to keep from your night together.
Date nights made only for members
Pocket Date Night members get their own collection of themed date nights, separate from the date nights churches share. If your church already gives you date nights, a membership adds more nights each month that you won't find anywhere else.
Travel back to where it started, stay in the present, and dream forward. Ends with a sealed letter for a future anniversary.
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A bonus date night for annual members, made for your wedding anniversary whenever it falls.
Three steps to a better date night
Pick your plan
Choose annual, monthly, or a single date night, then sign in with your email. No password to remember.
Choose tonight's date
Pick a theme, then choose a night out or a night at home. A short list tells you anything to grab ahead of time.
Open it and go
Sign in on your phone and follow along. Your date nights are saved in your account, ready whenever you are.
Pick the plan that fits your marriage
A new date night every month.
- Starts with this month's member date night
- A new one unlocks on the 1st of each month
- Keep every date night you've unlocked while you're a member
- Cancel anytime
The whole year of date nights, today.
- All 12 member date nights for the year, right away
- Bonus: the Anniversary date night
- Next year's collection when it releases
- Cancel anytime
Pick any one member date night and keep it.
- Any date night from the package
- Yours to use again anytime
- No subscription
Every plan is for one married couple, on both of your phones. Member date nights are separate from the date nights churches share, so you can enjoy both.
Give every married couple in your church a better date night
One church license gives every couple in your congregation free access, with your church's logo on every date night.
- Your logo on every date night
- An invitation to your church in every kit, linked to your website
- Easy outreach: couples share it with friends, and your church's name goes with it
- No prep for your staff
Priced by your average weekend attendance, from small churches to the largest.
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The Time Machine date night is free for every married couple. Open it on your phone and go.
Good to know
Who is Pocket Date Night for?
Married couples. Every date night is written for husbands and wives, with moments of romance and affection meant for marriage. They aren't designed for dating or engaged couples.
Is it Christian?
Yes. Pocket Date Night is faith-based. Every date night has a key Scripture at its heart, and some include a time of prayer together.
Do we need to download an app?
No. Sign in on our website with your email and your date nights open in your phone's browser. Add it to your home screen and it works like an app.
Can we use it on both of our phones?
Yes. Your membership is for the two of you, so you can both sign in with the same email. Memberships are for your marriage only and can't be shared with other couples.
Night out or night in?
Your choice, every time. Each date night has a version for going out and a version for staying home.
My church already shares Pocket Date Night. Why would we join?
Enjoy your church's date nights for free. A membership gives you a separate collection of date nights you won't get through your church, so you can have more date nights each month.
What's the difference between annual and monthly?
Annual unlocks all 12 member date nights right away, plus the Anniversary bonus date night. Monthly starts with the current month's date night, then unlocks a new one on the 1st of each month.
Can I cancel?
Yes, anytime. Your plan stays active through the end of the period you paid for.
Your next great date night is already planned.
Start the full year today, or try the free Time Machine date night first.
