Tonight's plan
Who's on this date?
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The D.A.T.E. rules
Drop the to-do listWork, money, and chores can wait until tomorrow.
All eyes on each otherSilence your phones, except the one running tonight's date.
Talk kindlyNo complaints or criticism tonight.
Enjoy the momentLaugh, flirt, and have fun together.
- Never use your phone while driving. Let the passenger run the date night.
- Every activity is optional. Skip anything that isn't a good fit for you.
- Check food allergies, and follow the rules of places you visit.
- These date nights are for fun and connection, not a substitute for counseling.
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Plan your anniversary
Tonight is for celebrating the story only the two of you could write. Check these off ahead of time.
Start with a kiss
Before the celebrating begins, take a moment for just the two of you.
A seven-second kiss, like it's your wedding day all over again.
Then head to dinner. You'll make a toast when your meal arrives.Then get dinner ready. You'll make a toast when it's served.
A toast to the years
Before your first bite, raise your glasses and take turns finishing this toast. Then enjoy your meal!
"To us, to every year behind us, and to every year ahead. Here's to…"
Our marriage by the numbers
Enter your wedding date, and add a few fun numbers of your own.
Take a screenshot of your numbers to remember this year's anniversary.
Wedding memories
Pull up your wedding photos and look through them together. Then take turns answering.
Our year in review
Another year of marriage is worth celebrating. Look back at the year you just shared.
Renew your vows
Order a dessert to share.Bring out the cake. Then each of you fills in your vows, holds hands, and reads them aloud.
"And though one may be overpowered, two can resist. Moreover, a cord of three strands is not quickly broken."ECCLESIASTES 4:12 (BSB)
Your marriage is a cord of three strands: the two of you and God. Take a moment right now to remember everything He has carried you through together, then end with a short prayer thanking Him for another year together.
Share your memories
Take a photo of the two of you tonight. We'll add an anniversary frame, and you can save it or post it.
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The drive home
Our song
Play your wedding song on the way home.Play your wedding song and dance like it's your first dance all over again.
- What was your favorite moment of our anniversary date?
- What's one thing you want to remember about this year of our marriage?
- Where do you hope we are by our next anniversary?
Let the passenger pick the music, so the driver keeps eyes on the road.
When you get home, share your first dance one more time in the living room, and end the night with a kiss.End your dance with a kiss, and here's to many more years together.
