Tonight's plan
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Get ready
Tonight you retell your love story, write each other valentines, and end with a slow dance.
Then & now
Half of tonight's questions look back at how you fell in love. The other half are about loving each other right now. Both answer, starting with {H}.
Write a valentine
Fill in your valentine. When you're both done, trade phones or read them to each other out loud.
Sweet dares
Draw a dare and do it, then pass the phone. Skip any you'd rather pass on.
Above all
Of everything you could put on for a date night, God says the most important thing to wear is love. Read it out loud together.
"And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony."COLOSSIANS 3:14 (ESV)
- A time you were patient and kind with me, and I noticed, was…
- One way I want to love you better this year is…
Hold hands. Thank God for the gift of your spouse. Ask Him to help you love each other the way He loves you, out loud or silently.
One slow dance
Play your song, pull your spouse close, and dance. When the song ends, kiss.
Play the song you picked, or choose one here.
All of Me – John LegendThinking Out Loud – Ed SheeranBless the Broken Road – Rascal FlattsFrom This Moment On – Shania TwainUnchained Melody – The Righteous BrothersI Get to Love You – RuelleDriver, eyes on the road. Save the kiss for when you're parked.
Fourteen seconds, for February 14. Going over is encouraged.
You said yes once. Tonight you said it again. Happy Valentine's Day.
The D.A.T.E. rules
Drop the to-do listWork, money, and chores can wait until tomorrow.
All eyes on each otherSilence your phones, except the one running tonight's date.
Talk kindlyNo complaints or criticism tonight.
Enjoy the momentLaugh, flirt, and have fun together.
- Never use your phone while driving. Let the passenger run the date night.
- Every activity is optional. Skip anything that isn't a good fit for you.
- Check food allergies, and follow the rules of places you visit.
- These date nights are for fun and connection, not a substitute for counseling.
If you don't feel safe at home, you're not alone. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.org. In an emergency, call 911.
