Tonight's plan
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What a night
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A date night for married couples
Plan your night outnight in
Tonight is all about fun. Check these off ahead of time.
The D.A.T.E. rules
Drop the to-do listWork, money, and chores can wait until tomorrow.
All eyes on each otherSilence your phones, except the one running tonight's date.
Talk kindlyNo complaints or criticism tonight.
Enjoy the momentLaugh, flirt, and have fun together.
- Never use your phone while driving. Let the passenger run the date night.
- Every activity is optional. Skip anything that isn't a good fit for you.
- Check food allergies, and follow the rules of places you visit.
- These date nights are for fun and connection, not a substitute for counseling.
If you don't feel safe at home, you're not alone. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.org. In an emergency, call 911.
Start with a kiss
A seven-second kiss to get things going. Don't be shy!
A soft chime plays at seven seconds. Keep going as long as you like.
Then head to dinner. Truth, Dare & Chocolate is next, for the drive.
Then grab the M&Ms. Truth, Dare & Chocolate is next, on the couch.
Truth, Dare & Chocolate
Red, orange, yellow = Truth · Blue, green, brown = Dare
Driver answers Truths only. Save the driver's Dares for when you're parked.
Sit face to face. Dares happen right there on the couch!
Appetizer: joke duel
Order something to shareSet out a snack to share and warm up the laughs.
Take turns reading a joke and its punchline. If your spouse laughs, you get a point. The winner gets a special massage from their spouse sometime this week.
Dinner talk
Slow down and enjoy each other. Start with a comedy club mad lib, then take turns finishing these.
- You make me laugh most when you…
- How can we have more fun together?
"Then our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with shouts of joy."PSALM 126:2 (BSB)
Dessert
Dessert is only a taste of how sweet this night will be. Quietly, so no one else can hear, talk about how you hope your evening will end.
Pass the fun along
Before you leaveBefore the night ends, share this Comedy Night kit with another married couple and dare them to have a night of laughs of their own.
Spot another married couple on a date? Let them scan this code.Next time you see a married couple you love, let them scan this code.
https://www.pocketdatenight.com/comedy-date-night
Post about your night and invite everyone to plan one of their own.
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Drive home
Laugh together
Keep the laughs rollingCurl up and keep the laughs rolling with clean comedy from Nate Bargatze.
Let the passenger pick what to play, so the driver keeps eyes on the road.
Get cozy, put the other phones away, and laugh together.
When you get home, don't let anything pull you awayDon't let chores or screens pull you away from how you hoped the evening would end. Follow through on what you talked about over dessert, starting with a goodnight kiss.