Tonight's plan
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What a night
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A date night for married couples
The D.A.T.E. rules
Drop the to-do listWork, money, and chores can wait until tomorrow.
All eyes on each otherSilence your phones, except the one running tonight's date.
Talk kindlyNo complaints or criticism tonight.
Enjoy the momentLaugh, flirt, and have fun together.
- Never use your phone while driving. Let the passenger run the date night.
- Every activity is optional. Skip anything that isn't a good fit for you.
- Check food allergies, and follow the rules of places you visit.
- These date nights are for fun and connection, not a substitute for counseling.
If you don't feel safe at home, you're not alone. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.org. In an emergency, call 911.
Plan your night
Tonight you'll dream big about your future together. Check these off ahead of time.
Break ground
Every great build starts with a groundbreaking. Yours starts with a kiss.
Groundbreaking ceremony: the two of you, one kiss.
A seven-second kiss to break ground on your dreams.
Then head to dinner.Then sit down to dinner. The building begins at the table.
Our dream blueprint
After you orderOnce dinner is served, build your dream house one room at a time. Each room is a part of your life together. Tap a room, dream about it out loud, then build it.
No right or wrong answers. Dream big, and listen well.
Dream or nightmare?
Each of you secretly votes on the scenario. Then see if you match!
Lay the first brick
Every dream is built one brick at a time. Tonight, pick one dream from your blueprint and plan how you'll start it.
- Choose one dream from your blueprint.
- Plan your first steps: what will you do first to make it happen?
- Set a start date for your first step.
Keep them small and doable. One step is enough to start.
"Commit your works to the LORD and your plans will be achieved."PROVERBS 16:3 (BSB)
Before you leave the table, hold hands and pray together. Ask God to guide this dream and every dream on your blueprint.
Pass the fun along
Before you leaveBefore the night ends, share this date night with another married couple and dare them to dream big.
Spot another married couple on a date? Let them scan this code.Next time you see a married couple you love, let them scan this code.
https://www.pocketdatenight.com/dream-builder-date-night
Post about your night and invite everyone to plan one of their own.
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The drive home
Keep dreaming
Keep dreaming on the way home.Get cozy on the couch and keep dreaming. Take turns with these.
- Which room on our blueprint are you most excited about?
- What's one dream you didn't say tonight, but want to someday?
- What's one small way I can help your dreams come true?
Let the passenger pick the music, so the driver keeps eyes on the road.
Put every phone away except this one, and listen well.
Tip: take a screenshot of your plan and set it as your phone's lock screen for a week.
When you get home, seal your plans with a kiss at the front door.
