Tonight's plan
Set up your date
A few quick choices, then you're off.
There's no wrong way to do this. Skip anything that doesn't fit you two, and linger wherever you're having fun. Tonight is about each other, not checking every box.
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What a night
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Set the suite
Tonight is the first night of the rest of your life together. A little prep makes it unforgettable. Dinner out first, then back to your room.Stay in and make your room the whole destination.
A toast to Mr. & Mrs.
Take turns reading a line to your new spouse like you mean it, because you do. Eye contact required. Your spouse rates it, then it's their turn.
Feeling brave? Make up your own line for the last round.
Turn up the heat
Pick a level and take turns, starting with {H}.
Honeymoon dares
Draw a dare and do it. Take turns, and skip any dare you'd rather pass on. Keep it classy at dinner. The best dares are waiting back in your room.Go slow. Enjoy every one.
A love God designed
Head back to your room and get comfortable. God created this night. He celebrates your love and the gift of intimacy in marriage. Read this out loud to each other.
"You have captivated my heart, my sister, my bride; you have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes."SONG OF SONGS 4:9 (ESV)
- The moment I knew I wanted to spend forever with you was…
- One thing I promise to protect in our marriage is…
- Tonight, what I want you to know most is…
Hold hands. Thank God for bringing you together. Ask Him to bless your marriage, your home, and your marriage bed, and to keep your love this warm for a lifetime.
"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled." Hebrews 13:4 (ESV)
Your first dance, again
Save this one for your room. When you walk in, dim the lights, play your wedding song, and dance closer than you could at the reception.Dim the lights, play your wedding song, and dance closer than you could at the reception.
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The honeymoon kiss
The song ends. Don't let go yet.
Ten slow seconds at the end of your dance. Going over is strongly encouraged.
Welcome to forever. Seal it with a kiss, turn off the lights, and leave the rest of the night to the two of you. 😉
The D.A.T.E. rules
Drop the to-do listWork, money, and chores can wait until tomorrow.
All eyes on each otherSilence your phones, except the one running tonight's date.
Talk kindlyNo complaints or criticism tonight.
Enjoy the momentLaugh, flirt, and have fun together.
- Never use your phone while driving. Let the passenger run the date night.
- Every activity is optional. Skip anything that isn't a good fit for you.
- Check food allergies, and follow the rules of places you visit.
- These date nights are for fun and connection, not a substitute for counseling.
If you don't feel safe at home, you're not alone. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.org. In an emergency, call 911.
