Tonight's plan
Who's on this date?
Every Pocket Date Night kit is made for husbands and wives. We'll use your names all night.
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What a night
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Set the mood
Tonight is all about flirting with your spouse like it's the first time. A little prep goes a long way.
The flirt-off
Take turns reading a line to your spouse like you mean it. Eye contact required. Your spouse rates it, then it's their turn.
Feeling brave? Make up your own line for the last round.
Turn up the heat
Pick a heat level and take turns answering, starting with {H}. Start warm and work your way up.
Flirty dares
Draw a dare and do it. Take turns, and skip any dare you'd rather pass on. Keep it classy, you're in public.No rush. Enjoy every one.
Love worth keeping lit
Head home and get comfortable. God designed romance in marriage, and He celebrates it. Read this out loud to each other.
"Its flashes are flashes of fire, the very flame of the LORD. Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it."SONG OF SOLOMON 8:6–7 (ESV)
- The moment tonight I felt the most attracted to you was…
- One thing that always makes me feel wanted by you is…
- One way I want to keep our spark alive this month is…
Hold hands. Thank God for the gift of each other and for the joy of romance in marriage. Ask Him to keep your flame burning bright and to protect your love, out loud or silently.
One slow dance
Play your song, pull your spouse close, and dance. No talking needed.
Play the song you picked, or choose one here.
Perfect – Ed SheeranSpeechless – Dan + ShayDie a Happy Man – Thomas RhettMake You Feel My Love – AdeleAt Last – Etta JamesCan't Help Falling in Love – Elvis PresleyTen slow seconds at the end of your dance. Going over is encouraged.
You flirted, you laughed, and you turned up the heat. Seal it with a kiss. The rest of the night is just for the two of you. 😉
The D.A.T.E. rules
Drop the to-do listWork, money, and chores can wait until tomorrow.
All eyes on each otherSilence your phones, except the one running tonight's date.
Talk kindlyNo complaints or criticism tonight.
Enjoy the momentLaugh, flirt, and have fun together.
- Never use your phone while driving. Let the passenger run the date night.
- Every activity is optional. Skip anything that isn't a good fit for you.
- Check food allergies, and follow the rules of places you visit.
- These date nights are for fun and connection, not a substitute for counseling.
If you don't feel safe at home, you're not alone. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.org. In an emergency, call 911.
