Tonight's plan
Who's on this date?
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What a night
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The D.A.T.E. rules
Drop the to-do listWork, money, and chores can wait until tomorrow.
All eyes on each otherSilence your phones, except the one running tonight's date.
Talk kindlyNo complaints or criticism tonight.
Enjoy the momentLaugh, flirt, and have fun together.
- Never use your phone while driving. Let the passenger run the date night.
- Every activity is optional. Skip anything that isn't a good fit for you.
- Check food allergies, and follow the rules of places you visit.
- These date nights are for fun and connection, not a substitute for counseling.
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Plan your Valentine's
Tonight is all about falling in love all over again. Check these off ahead of time.
The first look
Get ready in separate rooms. Then meet at the front doorin the living room, like it's your very first date.
Take a moment. Then each of you finishes this sentence:
"You look amazing tonight. My favorite thing about you right now is…"
A seven-second kiss to start the most romantic night of the year.
Then head to dinner. The candy hearts are waiting at the table.Then sit down to your candlelit dinner.
Candy hearts
Take turns tapping a candy heart. Each one has a sweet question or a little dare inside.
A love note
Fill in the blanks, and we'll turn your answers into a love note. Then read it to your spouse, out loud.
Then, now & always
Order a dessert to share.Bring out dessert. Then take turns with these.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."1 CORINTHIANS 13:4 (BSB)
- Then: What's something you loved about me when we first met?
- Now: What's something you love about me even more today?
- Always: What's one way you want our love to grow this year?
Hold hands and each make one simple promise for this year. Start with:
"This year, I promise to love you by…"
Pass the love along
Know a married couple who could use a romantic night? Send this their way.
Spot another married couple celebrating tonight? Let them scan this code.Next time you see a married couple you love, let them scan this code.
https://www.pocketdatenight.com/valentines-date-night
Post a photo of the two of you and invite everyone to plan a night of their own.
Instagram doesn't allow links in captions to be tapped, so add the link to your bio or story, or just share the photo and hashtags.
The drive home
One last dance
Hold hands, put on something romantic, and talk on the way home.Dim the lights, put on something romantic, and slow dance right where you are.
- What was your favorite moment of our Valentine's date?
- Which candy heart or love note line will you remember most?
- How can I make you feel loved this week?
Let the passenger pick the music, so the driver keeps eyes on the road.
When you get home, share one slow dance in the living room, and end the night with a kiss.End your dance with a kiss, and keep the night going.
